It is getting really exciting. The trip has become our main topic and accounts for about 80% of our conversation topics. A few days ago we finally decided the places we want to go to. Since we anyways wanted to go to Mumbai, I thought it makes sense to go to Goa as well as it seems very "close" for Indian conditions. Actually,I almost insisted of going to Goa because I always wanted to be at a beach where the water is warm. Whenever I was on a holiday, going to the beach meant melting in the hot sun and go into the cold water to cool down your body until my lips turned blue and my mum asked me to come out. Strange that sometimes I came out from the water and was freezing, but still caught a sunburn somehow. And I`m talking about Spain, Italy, Turkey....Now I`m living in a beach town in England, we have July and the water is still so freezing that we sometimes are at the beach all day and return home completely dry. What a shame. Whatever....back to the plan. How it always turns out when a man and a woman plan: he wanted to see something completely different: He wants to go to Jammu in the state Jammu&Kashmir to show me the Vaishno Devi Temple. So we ended putting both places on our which have a distance of 2513km (GoogleMaps). So will be in the very north of the country, but also in almost in South India. I was actually about to tell him that we could actually even go more southern: Kerala, Tamil Nadu, Trivadrum.....but that would be too crazy: We have to do that next time. One more thing that was important for me to see was the Taj Mahal in Agra. Even though a lot of people don`t really like Agra, I think it is a sin for a tourist not to visit the Taj Mahal when you are so close to it. All the other destinations on our plan were suggested by Surya. I mean he grew up in this country and knows where it is worth to go. We are going to a lot of Hindu worship places e.g. Vrindavan- the birth town of the blue god Krishna. It was also important to me to me to stay for 2 or 3 days in an Ashram which is a Hindu retreat that offers everyone to stay with the Hindu community for free under the condition that you follow the rules of the Ashram e.g. meditation times. At least after the movie "Eat, Pray, Love" I started to get very interested in that way of travelling. As a tourism management student, I look at Ashrams with a touristic and ethical view. In fact, spiritual tourism, cultural tourism, heritage tourism and dark tourism started to become my favorite topics in my studies.
In the past days, Surya and his father were busy with booking tickets: airplanes, trains etc. I kind of lost track of what they are actually doing...I just remember that they booked first class (1 AC) tickets for the Rajdhani train from Mumbai to Delhi. If you look on my "Destinations" page, there is a map that indicates the places that we plan to go and also shows the means of transport we are planning to go. In the next days, I`m going to add more specific descriptions about the destinations, especially because some places might not be that famous for tourists yet, but maybe I can change that ;-)